In a culture where the perpetrator who with vile affection common to abusers, *offers* to rape his sister,
or the fuck who persistently beat and abused his wife and son then teaches his son it’s called character building;
are seen as “just a teen who was angry” (he was not) or a person who has changed through religion; (he has not) and
dictates everyone is supposed to move on…better said, everyone but the people harmed are supposed to move on…we understand the not joke of women choosing a bear to be caught in the woods with over a man isn’t a stretch when the men who are culturally trained to be vile abusers are then painted as something harmless and turned loose on us in every generation.