Today I’m writing to you if you’re among the many estranged parents who feel blindsided by the estrangement and I’m sending you three things to consider in your situation. These may be spot on, they may be a bit relatable, they might be so outside your experience you cannot tell if they apply to your situation. So all I ask is for you to consider whether any of these three things might be part of the reasons your child has chosen to estrange from you.